Thanks to “Fifty Shades of Grey,” the crop has become rather popular in the bedroom!
Here’s a riding crop from JT’s Stockroom (the link opens in a new window for you). Here are some quirts from TexomaWhips. JT’s Stockroom (now simply called The Stockroom) is one of my favorite providers of inexpensive but high quality bondage equipment. I have no relationship to TexomaWhips, but their photos look great!
A quirt is relatively short. Roughly half is handle, and half is the whip. The handle might be wooden, or might be leather and flexible. A quirt has two or three relatively wide blades. The ones I have seen have all been rawhide.
With a quirt, the whole thing is flexible and floppy. A riding crop, by comparison, is stiff. (more…)
Somewhere in our house, we all have a drawer, box, cabinet or even closet filled with things we wouldn’t want others to see. It lingers near our bed and calls to us in the middle of the night when there’s no one there to fill our needs. It shows us our true selves, gives us great joy and teaches us new things. I’m talking about none other than your sex toy drawer (box/cabinet/closet/vault). That sacred place that every woman needs to go every once in a while.
Realistically though, no matter how often you turn to its contents, how often do you actually upgrade your toys, clean them and throw out the ones that just aren’t doing it anymore? Probably not often. At this point, are your toys a little rundown and ragged? Are you bored with a few of them? If so, it’s time for a little sex drawer revival. It’s time to pull em out, evaluate and re-up your selection.
First, look at your toys and see if any of the material is beginning to break down. Sadly, silicone-based lubes, improper storage and plain old usage over time can cause the materials in your toys to break down. This can be incredibly unsafe, so make sure you toss any toys that look a little beaten up. (more…)
This page of Serijules’ Journal from Tuesday, April 8th, 2003 is used with permission.
Silence is a given for me, being I am deaf.
However, it’s also given me the ability to learn to communicate without needing words, something I have had many partners compliment me on. Finding someone that also has that skill is wondrous.
I have one person I play with, he canes me, and our entire scenes are usually done silently…there is no need for him to speak to me or I to him, we communicate amazingly through small gestures and watching each others body language even though we do not play often. He can be sitting across the room and I just look at him intently, without taking my gaze away when he meets it…and he knows what I want, and the canes come out. He doesn’t need to stop and ask me how I’m doing; a hand on my back will get a small, barely noticeable nod from me, and he knows I’m all right to continue. If the hand doesn’t move, I know he needs me to look at him so he can gauge where I am by my expression. If it gets to be too much, he’s realized that the slight tense lift of my palm or the length of time that my leg lingers bent up into the air rather than remaining in position after a particularly painful stroke, means that I am nearing my limits. (more…)
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