Summary:
Bend over, and hope they know what they’re doing. That is not how to take responsibility for your own safety! This seminar teaches you what to watch for, and how to evaluate, whether someone can safely conduct a caning scene with you. By the end of the day you’ll know more about the cane than many so-called experts! And, our common-sense techniques will help you more safely “bottom” in any BDSM scene.
Tom is accompanied by Sarah, who can answer questions from the recipient’s perspective. She is his collared submissive, and has participated in, or observed, all of Tom’s caning scenes. (more…)
I have been asked to teach some bondage ropecraft. Before again touching a rope, I decided to stop and think — and think. This essay is the result, and stands as my preparation for touching rope once again.
This essay is not a how-to. This is more a philosophy of rope bondage. It’s these concepts that I hope will stimulate your thinking, and encourage you to take your own craft to a higher level.
I’m writing this from the artist’s point of view. If you’re the model, will you be bored? On the contrary, I hope this will be at least as useful! At a certain level, bondage ropecraft is a coöperative effort. If you the model have no understanding of your role, you are possibly keeping the artist from his highest and best work. Even more important, though, is your safety factor. Without understanding the craft, how can you know he is as good as he claims he is? How can you trust, and know you will be safe? (more…)
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